Dating my sister in law
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Your sister and brother-in-law are two consenting adults who can date whomever they like.
The way we see it is that there is no way there relationship will work out.
If there relationship goes south which it most likely will, I feel like it will be a burden on our marriage.
Our families are already kind of iffy of each other.
The children of both of them have been having children in the last two years and they have unanimously decided that they'll be grandparents for the kids, regardless of genetics, just because they're so good together.
I think you should just let love do it's thing and see what happens. Be honest that you are concerned that the relationship, if it ends will make life difficult for you and your husband.
Explain now that you will not take sides and need to maintain a relationship with both of them if they split. You could divorce your wife then your BIL wont be your BIL and problem solved.
They are adults and if it clicks between them why the hell should they care what you think.If you & your wife have a solid relationship, there should be no burden on your marriage...some awkward times ahead, if things don't work out for the two of them, but that's not on you or your wife. Unfortunely, you can't and won't be able to control who other people fall in love with.You're going to have to let this thing play out. They can do what they like, and you have no right to tell them otherwise.Your opinion could be entirely valid but at the same time they're adults and if they want to be in a relationship, they can be. So, in that sense, it doesn't matter whether your thoughts are justified, or if you're being selfish.Stay out of their relationship, don't pick sides, end of story. A while later his older brother and her younger sister got together and are now married. If family members share their opinions, simply respond, "My wife and I were surprised by the news of the relationship, but take comfort they found support while getting through a terrible time in their lives.