Dating 20 questions

18-Aug-2019 23:07 by 6 Comments

Dating 20 questions

We all go through intense communication training for years; it’s called childhood.

And if you don’t know your values, how can you expect your partner to have a clue?

Your petals might be beautiful, but if you don’t have any nectar then the bees are just going to fly away. It can prop up an intimacy that has no foundation to sustain it.

Letting physical intimacy run wild and free typically means the emotional, spiritual, and personality attraction is lagging behind. Sex while dating can create many awful shades of gray, when what your relationship needs is some honest black and white.

Are you fitting and conforming to some abstract idea of what you think they want?

Or are you blossoming and flourishing into who you really are?

Is the person you’re dating like a magnet trying to bring the best of you to the surface?

Or are they trying to bury you under a pile of dirt?

Sure we’re not our parents and we can work to change our communication habits.

However, for many of us our fallback communication plan will be the one our parents laid out for us.

Not trying to change you, but trying to bring the best to the top.

A spouse should be like a gold miner, going under the surface to uncover the invaluable stuff underneath.

How are you supposed to lasso that magical unicorn before it flies away?