21 year old dating 30 year old

21-Aug-2019 20:20 by 4 Comments

21 year old dating 30 year old

There was only one guy I ever emailed back and after talking for awhile and making sure he was legit, we met in a public place.I wasn't sure I liked him, but he made it VERY clear that he liked me right after the first date.

I told him this could not be serious we could just explore, but 2 months into it he asked me to be with him, and I said I had to really think about it.....3 months into it my feelings have grown for him.... Why did you break up with him if you were in love with him? I'm in the exact same boat, 31 & falling for a 21 year old who seems more mature than most men I've met, I'm an independent successful woman that never thought I'd be in this situation, most men are intimidated by my strong personality and independence, but this 21 year old makes me feel intimidated like He breaks my guards and makes me feel like he has some overpowering connection that I can't explain. She some time confused because she say it is nor right i say with you, you need to find some on in your age.

He owns his own business, and has another side business as well.

Also he has a lot of close friends and plays a lot of sports which keep him busy. What does a 30 year old successful, attractive, athletic man want with a 21 year old who is in university and still lives at home? Kind of a big gap for the ages you are, but he might genuinely like you.

He said that he really wants to be in a relationship and have someone to share his wonderful life with to make it that much better. If anyone else see's something wrong with this picture let me know. I say give him the benefit of the doubt, but if you're uncomfortable with the showering of attention, I'd let him know to scale it back a bit.

I think you worry too much, I know alot of couples with an age difference of 8 - 15 years that just do fine.

After only the first date he would call me non stop, text me, email me.

He bought chocolate on the first date, and flowers on the second date, and has talked to me a lot about starting a relationship.The age isn't nearly so much an issue as the smothering. I see red flags here and it is not the age difference..is his sweet talking, the gifts, the Las Vegas trip he wants you to go on with him, the constant communication so early on.Either he is a player or he is desperate..I think the attraction has more to do with him figuring at 21 you are naive and would gobble up all his sweet talk and gestures.Tread carefully with this guy..is too much, too intense, too soon.He sounds like a good salesman, talking about his good life and all. Can it work with a 10 year difference with the women being older?????